Friday, November 1, 2013

Keeping your Marriage


Marriage is a difficult relationship to keep. When there are good times, life is beautiful; when there are bad times, life is unbearable. Marriage is like a sibling relationship. When there is conflict, there is a moment of silence or lock down but at the end of the day, there must be settlement. A couple that plans to keep their marriage must adhere to these:
1. Do not entertain third parties (even parents) into your marital affairs
2. Try not to break the bond of love
3. Money should never cause problems
4. Learn to trust at all times
5. Be on each others side in public even if guilty
Married couples must avoid these:
1. Public Quarrels
2. Fighting in the presence of the children
3. Criticizing each other
4. Past relationships (exes) must become history
5. Quick judgement of each other
The success of marriage lies in the hands of the couple.