Taking a stand on meeting your soul mate

It may seem fruitless when all your life you have been on dates, had good friends and you are approaching thirty with no marriage proposals. All your age mates are married, your friends are married, even your colleagues are all married and there is practically no one who is free to be around you.
Then it is time to take a stand on meeting your soul mate. A clear and free mind allows you notice the person who has been trying to get your attention for the past couple of years, or the person who does favors for you without asking for payback because that person is waiting for an invite. The idea is to shut your eyes tight and open them wide along with your mind to see who your soul mate is. That person can't be too far away.