An old friend once told me the best way to solve peoples
problems are by being a good listener. It is not always so easy especially when
the person talking goes on and on for hours. But there are certain strategies
to take when listening to someone.
Use your imagination.
Allow yourself to give pictures to the words coming out of the speaker’s mouth.
Be in the picture.
After employing your imaginative skills, try to picture yourself as the person
in the story for better understanding.
Nod occasionally.
Nodding of the head occasionally encourages the speaker who feels confident and
relaxed knowing you understand and communication is taking place.
Never glance at the
clock. The gesture of looking at the time can be rude and will turn off
your companion.
Do not interrupt
unless when unclear. Allow the speaker pour out his/her heart without any
interruption. Interruptions depress and upset people.
How else can we be
good listeners?
You can also be a good listener by being very patient because some people want to talk but don't know how to express themselves so encourage them to say what they want to say in a soft and patient manner. Also be a good listener by not looking bored when the person is talking.
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